01-18-2016, 12:20 AM
My wife and I dated 7 years before our wedding last September.
We just take our time with this stuff. Life is long, why the hurry? There won't be any offspring though, she had a bad childhood and I just plain don't want any kids cause let me tell you being smarter than average is rage-inducing and the kid would probably inherit that.
So many people our age though marry after only a few months together and then end up with disaster and multiple kids on the ground that are conflicted over which house is their real home.
Feels Warning. No really, this really hits hard. The reality of what divorce is like for a kid
We just take our time with this stuff. Life is long, why the hurry? There won't be any offspring though, she had a bad childhood and I just plain don't want any kids cause let me tell you being smarter than average is rage-inducing and the kid would probably inherit that.
So many people our age though marry after only a few months together and then end up with disaster and multiple kids on the ground that are conflicted over which house is their real home.
Feels Warning. No really, this really hits hard. The reality of what divorce is like for a kid